1. Now, let us address a fear that you can also overcome pretty fast if you do what is needed. This fear is the one men have of talking or meeting women. This is also a spread fear and it affects a lot of relationship and breaks some even before they start. This fear can be overcome although it might take some time that can differ from a person to another. Here is how to become confident fast when it comes to talking to women:

- this is going to be hard at first because you might not have done this. You need to start talking to girls or women! That’s it! You need to find groups or girls and just start a conversation with them or with one of them. How could you do this without being afraid of rejection? You won’t care if you are rejected or not? How come? You will just go there to talk to some women, no ask them for a date.

Even if you get rejected, so what? Move to the next and so on until someone talks to you. You never lost anything. Maybe you will not like to talk to a specific woman so you can also reject her and go and talk to others. It is really easy and the sooner you get started the better. Maybe you should start by talking to a single woman at a time, to build self confidence with women.

2. A 2-nd fear that we have is the one about being remarked by other people. Some individuals would do anything just so that they can pass unseen by anyone. They will go to work and do nothing special, not because they couldn’t, but because their desire is to stay under the radar. Because of this fear there are people that will constantly look to stay in the back of the classroom and not in the front. How to become confident fast when you have this issue? Here is how:

- start doing exactly to opposite of what you would normally do! Go early to classes so that you can pick the your place where you want to stay and this time stay in front of the class. Wherever you go from now on try to get a seat in the front. Don’t think about how scary it is for you, just do it and you will see that it’s all right.

Nothing will happen. You will just be close to the person who talks and understand what he says better. You could also participate to what it is said, but this is optional. But, by sitting in front, you will eliminate you fear. There is not way around it. Just do it without thinking too much about this. If you want to become confident you have to take some risks.

Have a correct posture

The most important thing when wanting to talk to a girl is to have a proper posture. No one, girl or boy will want to talk to you if you have a bad posture. So, keep your head forward, always make sure that you have your back straight (do this even when you are not talking to anyone because if someone sees you with a bad posture, you might have problems talking to them later on). Also keep your eyes focused forward because this inspires confidence and girls are drawn to this. When you talk to a group of girls or one girl make sure that you look her right into her eyes. It is very important to make eye contact and although it might seem hard to do at first, you will become more familiar with this by doing it every time. Practice will make you better.

Talk to them

Another thing you really have to practice in order to learn how to become more confident around women or girls is to make it a habit to talk to some girls each day. Do it every single day! Talk to them more than once if possible. You should do this because this way you will feel more and more comfortable around girls and soon you won’t be afraid to talk to them anymore. The more you talk to them the better you will feel and you will become more confident after a while. And, by talking to as many girls as you can, you will begin to work on another important aspect which we will talk about now.

Do your homework

In order to become more confident around girls, you will have to learn what their interests are and generally learn more about them. Read books and magazines about this subject and make some written notes. Never just rely on your memory for this because there will be things that you will forget. Just write everything down and read it once or twice per week just to make sure you don’t forget. Also, it would be great if you had a good, female friend that you could talk to about this. Ask her more about girls and take notes.

Tell her that you want to get to know more about her and girls in general. If she is a good friend, she will help. You could also ask your girlfriend (if you have one at the moment). And, another option, although it is one that might scare you, is to talk about girls with your mother. Even though you may not think this is a good idea, you might be wrong. Your mother might know more about girls than you could ever imagine and she could give your some very useful pointers. And, you will also connect with her more by talking to her about these things.

Dress nicely

What I mean by this is don’t overdo it with the clothes you wear. You don’t need to stand out, but don’t dress in any kind of clothes either. Again, for getting an idea on which clothes would make you look better, you should both read about the subject (online, books, magazines) and talk to girls about this. Ask that good friend of yours about the clothes she thinks would make you look good. You don’t have to spend a lot of money on clothes, you just have to know what would look good on you.

Now you know pretty much about how to become more confident around girls. It’s time you started applying all of this!